ARTICLES & NEWSLETTER
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September 2008 - Thoughts on Labor Day

April 2008 - When You Hear Your Partner, Are You Listening? & “Limbic Resonance” and the Art of Listening

Young minds in hi-tech turmoil

Happy Relationships Result in Emotional Wellness in Your Organization

December 2006 - ‘Tis the Season to be jolly . . . and stressed!

November 2006 - How Does Imago Relationship Therapy Differ from other Relationship Therapies?

Brain Love - How your brain is your most romantic organ.

The Path To Wholeness - Nature's way of healing the universe—one relationship at a time.

Romantic Love Glues Us Together, yet Real Love is Born In Relationship - While our conscious mind wants us to feel happy all the time, our unconscious mind has another agenda-- and that is, to grow up, finish childhood, and become conscious that we have been reacting to painful experiences with the same unconscious patterns that we inherited from our childhood.

Imago Relationship Therapy As A Spiritual Path - Although traditional spiritual paths have not focused on the role of intimate committed relationships in the inner life, nowhere can spiritual transformation take place more fully than within such relationships. Only in relationship do we become truly human. Only another human has the potential of constellating so many sides of ourselves, can react so pointedly to our inhuman side, and can bring to consciousness so much of that of which we are unaware. Nowhere else do we have such an opportunity to learn the true meaning of love as in the drive for reunion with that from which we have been separated.

Marriage: Gives Rise to the Co-Creation of Self - We do not exist in isolation. Who we are emerges in our interactions with other people. We may think we exist separately, apart from the relationships in our lives, but that is an illusion. It is in our relationships that we create ourselves, and provide our partners with an "other" in whose context they create themselves. Our "self" exists not in our head or body, but in the space between us and the people with whom we connect. Who we are depends on what we bring to our relationships, whom we choose as a partner, and the nature and quality of the connection between us.

The Yoga of Relationships - As in yoga, when you come to this edge, you are asked to stretch even further than before, not pushing with force, not holding back in resistance, but releasing into a new space.